If you follow the Bill Hole universe: Collect rocks, find a favorite rock, sit on rocks, skip rocks, stand alone with totall confidence facing something inanimate, be the more silent person in the room, pretend to be stupid, reject women more easily than anyone who is hetero, get overexcited around celebrities, go where the water flows so to speak, sleep more than normal, have an affinity for water, especially the ocean, especially lagoons, bayous, swamps.